retronymical-deactivated2013120 asked: your curves are what make you beautiful. I understand why you hate when people say "you're curvy, but you're also beautiful", because that's like a backhanded compliment. You're just plain beautiful. Why does having extra fat or weight always have to have a bad connotation? Why can't someone just say "you're curvy" in a positive way, or "you're beautiful" without saying "no offense to your weight", more or less? I know how you feel because I too am "curvy" and weigh a little more than I'd like
Edited I completely misread what you said, I agree completely hahaI thought the quoted parts were what you were saying! But yes, this is exactly how I feel. 3 reblog
zombiemovies asked: "Negative comments only carry weight when you give it weight." Does this moron realize that the ENTIRE POINT of words is to have a specific meaning? The whole entire point of negative comments is to BE NEGATIVE. That's what words ARE FOR. This person is so stupid.
Couldn’t agree more with you, but people like this you cannot change their minds. They will forever be swimming in their own shit and thoughts.4 reblog
grave-robber-from-outer-space asked: I'm not trying to say anything rude to hurt you. I don't think you realize I'm actually on your side. You're right. No one told anyone to make a comment or have an opinion. But they're going to. That's reality. Assholes are everywhere and you can't avoid them. Negative comments only carry weight when you give it weight. That's just how I learned to deal with and conquer my own self esteem and physical appearance issues. Personally, I would rather someone be honest whether I asked them to or not.
You are so dense, it’s mind boggling. You are completely missing the point.1 reblog
grave-robber-from-outer-space asked: I never said he was right in his opinion. All I'm saying is he has a right to it. I don't believe in shaming honest opinions. Honesty can sometimes carry a sting but I'd rather have that than a lie. I too am a human being. And personally I believe to deny your own thoughts and impulses is to deny the very thing that makes you human. I find the woman in the picture to be gorgeous. And I applaud her courage to model nude despite the inevitable army of judgement she will face.
THE WOMEN IS ME YOU IDIOT, also you act like someone was caught in a lie. No one told them to make a comment…the honesty isn’t even needed, that person can simply scroll past the picture and NEVER look at it again. Fuck you and your logic, there is NO reason at all for someone to be an asshole when it can be absolutely avoided. No one is forcing anyone to make an opinion on my appearance, and if you say something rude just to hurt me…shows the kind of person you are. You have to be a bit of a sociopath to be able to find joy in making people unhappy.6 reblog
“Eh. I could do without the face, just cut her head off and I’m okay with the body.”-my boyfriend.
Haha oh goodness, the things that pop up on my dash. I am cracking up, people are so peculiar, and what they do with their time never ceases to amaze me.
Um…that’s a really mean thing to say. She is gorgeous all around. I don’t know if you thought you were being funny by saying this, but you’re just rude. Whether you disagree with your boyfriend or not, reblogging with that comment was unnecessary. Way to be a complete ass.
Why are we not allowed to make those comments? Because they’re honest? While I agree with you this girl is bangin’ all around I’m not about to shame someone for having an honest thought. If someone doesn’t think someone is attractive they should be able to say so. I think at least.
SERIOUSLY? Seriously? Yes you have the right but why are you wasting your time? Don’t you have better shit to do? I’m not am object up for judgement, maybe use that sense of criticism or something that will actually take you somewhere in life than dwelling on others appearances. I honestly don’t even understand how someone’s brain can be so mushed into it be alright to just care so much. I feel sorry for you. I’m a human being with feelings, just like everyone else….yes you can say horrible things about someone, you have every right but why would you? Is that how little you have going on in your insignificant life? Well my dear, have fun doing that…it will take you so far.3722 reblog
someone needs to turn down that sass level
OMG dude this is great!150237 reblog